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Coaching kids (and caregivers) from birth through the preteen years

The idea of coaching can feel abstract, especially with a very young child. What does it actually look like for a toddler, a third grader, or a preteen?

The short answer: coaching grows as your child grows. While the core focus stays the same, how that support looks changes by age. It also shifts as your child learns. So they may work on one skill at first, then switch focus once progress has been made.

Of course, you play an important role in your child’s growth. Which is why parent coaching is often a key part of care, especially in the early years. 

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Get started by age and stage

AGES 0-4

Infants & toddlers

Coaching for new(ish) caregivers

Learn about developmental milestones, manage separation anxiety, build patience, get kids to try new things, discover strategies for better sleep, and so much more.

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AGES 5-8

Kids

Coaching for kids and caregivers

Work on how to express big feelings like sadness, worry, and anger in healthy ways, encourage age-appropriate learning, balance alone time with social time, and so much more.

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Ages 9-12

Tweens

Coaching for preteens and caregivers

Learn to set boundaries on social media, manage peer pressure, nurture your preteen's growing sense of independence, build self-esteem, and confidence, and so much more.

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BrightLife Kids is free for all California families with kids ages 0–12

Signing up for BrightLife Kids is quick, simple, and confidential. All you need is a California zip code and a child 0–12 to be qualified. No insurance or referral needed. We're here for everyone and free for everyone.

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